Its horrible of me to say but I'm glad someone else is having this problem

Sorry m0g.
My game used to run fine on a modem and all. Then I installed spearhead and I got broadband, since then my machine crashes right in the middle of the action, sometimes just the game more often my whole machine, I never made a logfile of the crash but I would bet its the same as m0g's, yeah 3-4 times crashing during a match sounds like mine.
Do you have spearhead installed m0g, if not then maybe our problems are not the same, I even bought another 256 ram thinking that might have been the problem, fast modem and 20 other players, that didnt work still got my problems.